Marriage- second part of life begins
Wednesday, March 7th, 2012Marriage is the one of the important occasion in human beings life. It gives a legal permission to a grownup boy and a girl to live together forever. It creates a long lasting relationship between the bride and groom. They hold each others hand for ever. They take an oath to live together, to escape each other from danger, to take care each others. They take a commitment to make their partner the happiest person of the world. They promise each other not to leave their partner alone ever in a worst condition in their life. They will support each other in every difficulty. They will face the challenges in their life together. They will encourage each other to achieve the success in their life. It makes a beautiful bonding between two unknown people. It is the great feeling of human beings life. It is a finest gift by the God to human. It gives us a gift like a life partner who stands with us till the last moment of our life. Marriage is a unique combination of love, care, trust, support, respect and sacrifice. Love is the most important in marriage.
Now a days marriage has different categories like love marriage, arranged marriage. Love marriage is popularly used in our modern society. It is only possible when two persons love each other and want to marry. It becomes successful if the chemistry between them stays after the marriage, otherwise it tends to divorce. It is rarely successful. Arranged marriage is another type of marriage. It is arranged by both family of the boy and girl. Friends and relatives also participate in this occasion. This type of marriage is commonly used from the ancient era to till today. In this type of marriage the groom and the bride are stranger for each other. Still they have to live the rest of the life together with each other. They have to love each other and take care of each other. They support each other in every stage of life. After some days they become two lovers and very good life partner. As the time goes away the bonding between them becomes stronger. It exits till the last breath of our life. If all things work out properly, you can lead a best and smooth family life. It is very interesting feeling.
The couple has lots of expectations from the marriage. They both dreamt of a nice family and a cute baby in their life. It makes their marriage more successful. Every thing goes smoother if love is present there. It makes their life more functional and beautiful. In Love marriage love was there from before, but in arranged marriage we have to bring the feeling and try to love an unknown person, who is a stranger for them. But we can not say that love marriage is more successful due to love. There are many examples of break ups in love marriage rather than arranged marriage. If you will love your partner from the deep heart you can lead a best married life.